What Games Mean to Me #18 Games Taught Me How to Lose

I am a terrible gamer. I have a way of using strategies that are good enough not to lose but never good enough to win. I think part of that is I have not played any game enough times (other than my own designs) to get to a point where I have command of the basic strategies and move into the advanced strategies. Unless we are talking trick taking games, I tend to be pretty good at those.

Before I got into regular games nights, my usual gaming was with high school buddies and the only thing that mattered was winning. I hated losing in those situations.

When I got into the regular game nights with people from my meetup group, I learned very quickly that the point of games is to play them and the winning and losing part were the lowest things on the list of why to play a game. Playing games with new people taught me very quickly how to lose and sometimes win and have those things not matter. The interaction with people at the table and the enjoyment of playing a game and doing something that was outside the routine of life was more important than winning or losing.

Games have found a way to allow me to find enjoyment while removing the need to win or lose. This is important to me because when I was a kid, I was a terrible loser. Should the day come that I have a child and I need to teach them about winning and losing, I hope that I can use games to teach them that the experience of play is more important the the perceived life or death situation that is winning and losing.

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5 comments on “What Games Mean to Me #18 Games Taught Me How to Lose
  1. Jack says:

    Reblogged this on Tome and Tomb.

  2. Reblogged this on Board Game Strategies and commented:
    “…the point of games is to play them and the winning and losing part were the lowest things on the list of why to play a game.”

    This is great advice all around and very eloquently puts why I enjoy this cardboard hobby so much!

  3. Well said, board games are very much about the social aspect. With games like Dixit and One Night Ultimate Werewolf, the taking part eclipses the need to win for me every time.

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